Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.
But first, let's go waaay back...
It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.
She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't look away)...
She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom... but at the last minute I chickened out.
A few years later I realized she had a crush on me all senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart...
Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.
I have so many things to say about this so-called "10's." In one word they are women of another "breed," but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
To help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself, you need to understand you own fascination with female perfection, and understand the reality behind extremely beautiful women.
First thing, the idea about "10" is just a myth. There's no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more "valuable" just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true "10".
Subsequently, there are a lot of 10's in the world, you just need to have the ability to meet a bunch of women, and make an options for yourself.
Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.
Why?
Because every other guy does that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another "level" beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
This is important to understand so that you know how to deal with these kinds of women.
As what I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."
Let me clarify.
You shouldn't treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.
First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.
She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.
Now for your own sake I'm going to give you a heads up.
There are two types of "10's."
The high self-esteem, and the low self-esteem.
The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10's. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention.
In fact, most of their lives they've probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.
May sound harsh but I call it like it is.
These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
Now high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually HSE 10's are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
Actually, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
And here's another interesting thing. These women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here's the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
Being the best man you can be and being a "male 10" is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."
The girl will thinks "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you'll also enjoy a lot of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are plenty of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't spend another year of your life missing out.
Vin
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