Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.
But first off, let go waaay back...
It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.
That girl was so beautiful, cool and smart that it was hard to look at her (and yet I can't take my eyes off away from her)...
She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly...but I chickened out at the last minute.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I've talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...
Ah, the unreachable "10," a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.
I have a lot to say about so-called "10's." In one sense they are another "breed" of woman, but at the same time, it's that kind of thinking that makes them so.
To help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself, you need to understand you own fascination with female perfection, and understand the reality behind extremely beautiful women.
First thing, the idea about "10" is just a myth. There's no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more "valuable" just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true "10" and is the one that's perfect for you.
Subsequently, there are a lot of 10's in the world, you just need to have the ability to meet a bunch of women, and make an options for yourself.
It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.
Why?
Because a lot of guys do that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another "level" beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
As what I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."
Let me clear this up.
You shouldn't treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.
First, she is sick of guys chasing her for her looks alone.
More than anything else, a woman values a guy that appreciates her personality.
Now for your own sake I'm going to give you a heads up.
There are two types of "10's."
Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.
Low self esteem 10's are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.
May sound harsh but I call it like it is.
These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.
Usually HSE 10's are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
Actually, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here's the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a "male 10."
You'll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently... you'll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."
The girl will thinks "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you'll also enjoy plenty of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are bunch of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't waste you're time waiting for nothing.
Vin
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