If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a 10, then I think you'll find this letter very interesting.
But before anything else, let's go waaaay back...
When I was in high school, there was this girl in my class who was perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't stop my eyes looking)...
She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.
I realized after some few years that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I've talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...
Ah, the hard to tame "10," a perfect girl that every guy dream of but never seems to have it.
I have a lot to say about the concept of "10's," In deeper sense they are another "breed" of women, but it is on the way they think that makes them so.
Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help you in finding your "perfect girl."
First of all, "10" is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more "valuable".
A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true "10" and is the one that's perfect for you.
Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.
One recipe for your failure is if you treat a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier than the others.
Why?
Because every other guy does that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But of course there are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
Like I said, you shouldn't treat them "differently."
Let me clarify.
You shouldn't treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.
First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.
A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.
Now for the sake of yours, I''ll be giving you a heads up.
There are two types of "10's."
The high self-esteem, and the low self-esteem.
The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10's. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention.
In fact, most of their lives are probably coasted, and are in complete dumbasses.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.
Anything.
(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
And here's another interesting thing. These women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here's the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
The Attraction Code is about being a "male 10," the best man you can be.
You will notice an interesting thing if you start to apply the Attraction Code.
You'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level - it's what I call the Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."
The woman will thinks "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you'll also enjoy a lot of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are lot of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't waste you're time waiting for nothing.
Vin
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