If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10", then you should read this letter.
But before anything else, let's go waaaay back...
Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.
She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't look away)...
She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.
Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).
I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom... but at the last minute I chickened out.
I realized after some few years that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart...
Ah, the hard to tame "10," a perfect girl that every guy dream of but never seems to have it.
I have a lot to say about so-called "10's." In one sense they are another "breed" of woman, but at the same time, it's that kind of thinking that makes them so.
Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help you in finding your "perfect girl."
First of all, the concept of a "10" is a myth. There is no such thing as a perfect human being. No woman is more "valuable" just because she looks nicer than other women.
A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true "10" and is the one that's perfect for you.
The world is full of 10's, you just need to have the skills and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options for yourself.
It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.
Why?
Because a lot of guys do that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But of course there are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.
This is important to understand so that you know how to deal with these kinds of women.
Like I said, you shouldn't treat them "differently."
Let me clear this up.
You shouldn't treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.
First, she is sick of guys chasing her for her looks alone.
She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.
Now for the benefits of yours, I'll give you a heads up.
There are two types of "10's."
The high self-esteem, and the low self-esteem.
The common type is the low self-esteem 10's. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn't EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.
May sound harsh but I call it like it is.
These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(Aside from that, these women usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.
HSE 10's usually have good attitudes, have a direction in life, are intelligent, and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.
But here's the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a "male 10."
You'll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.
Occasionally women that are less attractive will be rude to you and you'll get an odd responses from them- that is because they know they're not on your level - I call this as Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some girls will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."
The woman will thinks "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. And of course you'll have plenty of "adventures" to enjoy with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are plenty of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't spend another year missing something that you could've been enjoying right now.
Vin
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