Young men are taught that their carnal desire is crude and silly, and that women are doing you a favor by ALLOWING YOU to mate with them.
There's another societal factor going on, that I call the "doofus dad" syndrome. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This leads to the perception that women are "better," and thus, their time is more valuable than yours.
You will feel obligated to give a woman a LOT OF TIME if your time is not so valuable.
But here's the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.
I realized this after analyzing tons and tons of dates I went on with women.
After a while I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but my FULL ATTENTION.
Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.
This make my girlfriends can't get enough of me - and I don't GIVE THEM "enough."
Ask you know, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me, and women can't be pulled to what they already have.
I don't recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
No need of games, just be real with the girl - and don't spend more time that you want.
Be a man on the go - focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women.
Now this requires that you are able to meet a lot of women in a short amount of time, which I'll have to cover in another newsletter.
It's a sad thing to see that men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
Women aren't property that you can keep or somehow take with you when you die. Think about that.
You can't "keep" a woman by investing all your time with her.
Another point that I want to give - when you start being honest about how much time you're going to give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It's either a girl will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.
If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.
You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.
That's why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It's all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real 'you' emerge from within.
And there's no need for us to impose our goals onto you. Given the proper guidance, I know you are able to do that for yourself.
Vin
There's another societal factor going on, that I call the "doofus dad" syndrome. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This leads to the perception that women are "better," and thus, their time is more valuable than yours.
You will feel obligated to give a woman a LOT OF TIME if your time is not so valuable.
But here's the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.
I realized this after analyzing tons and tons of dates I went on with women.
After a while I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but my FULL ATTENTION.
Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.
This make my girlfriends can't get enough of me - and I don't GIVE THEM "enough."
Ask you know, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me, and women can't be pulled to what they already have.
I don't recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
No need of games, just be real with the girl - and don't spend more time that you want.
Be a man on the go - focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women.
Now this requires that you are able to meet a lot of women in a short amount of time, which I'll have to cover in another newsletter.
It's a sad thing to see that men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
Women aren't property that you can keep or somehow take with you when you die. Think about that.
You can't "keep" a woman by investing all your time with her.
Another point that I want to give - when you start being honest about how much time you're going to give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It's either a girl will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.
If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.
You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.
That's why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It's all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real 'you' emerge from within.
And there's no need for us to impose our goals onto you. Given the proper guidance, I know you are able to do that for yourself.
Vin
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